Sometimes when we're in the middle of a horrible situation we wrap ourselves up in it. Usually it's a he said she said situation and they never end well. So the thing to do, is to just realize that they never end well and take yourself out of the situation, and look at it as an outsider.
You have to realize that everytime you get caught up in these situations theres no real reason to get upset over it. In the grand scheme of your life, it shouldn't have an impact. And if it is, then it needs to end. You're wasting valuable time that you could be out living on something that only makes you unhappy.
Society today is very politically correct. Which is alright, for the most part. Here's where it messes things up; politically correct assumptions don't factor in human emotion and the simple basis of communication. We're all people, people mess up, and if it's not politically correct to put yourself out there and just be yourself, then it doesn't apply. The way you feel shouldn't be muted just because you're afraid you'll hurt someone's feelings.
How often do your feelings get hurt? You got over it didn't you?
For the most part yes.
You will hurt peoples feelings. You will get hurt. Apologies when genuine are magical. I swear upon all that is holy, that the song "Don't Worry be Happy" is a true life philosophy.
Granted memory is in play and you won't forget that you got hurt or why but that's okay. It happens, people are too different to forever get along, and you know what? That's okay. It's when wrath and vindictive feelings get in the way. Let it go, once again life is too short to dwell. When you plot revenge, or you constantly worry, you're wasting time you could be spending doing something you enjoy. Take a vacation from life even if it's only your lunchbreak! Make a concious decision to let it go, the human mind when used right is a powerful tool.
Besides, when you smile, they wonder. :)
Once again sorry for misspellings the keyboard is sticky.
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